Planning for the future may sound like a daunting task. Often, people are overwhelmed looking at finances, thinking about death, and trying to determine who will assist them if they need help. If this is you, you are not alone. However, creating an estate plan isn’t necessarily as complicated as it sounds and it will save you, and your loved ones, from future headaches.
Estate plans are NOT just for the elderly or the wealthy. The reality is that estate planning, whether a simple or complex plan, is a must for everyone. We can’t control all of life’s events; accidents, illnesses, and major life events happen. What you can control is how the assets that you have worked so hard to accumulate will be used and, later on, distributed. Creating a comprehensive life-plan, an estate plan, ensures that your estate is protected during your lifetime and properly distributed at your death, all while protecting you personally as you age.
A properly executed estate plan can protect your money and assets, plan for long-term care, incapacity and end-of-life concerns, and proactively help you control what will happen to you and your assets.
At this point you may be wondering, what is an estate plan? Simply put, they are legal documents designating your wishes for the future. Estate plans may consist of a:
Trust;
Will;
Powers of Attorney;
Durable Powers of Attorney;
Guardianship;
Health Care Surrogate; and
Living Will.
Depending on the size of your estate, type of assets, and personal preferences/situations, you may find yourself with all or some of these documents.
If I were writing to my mother or grandmother, I would tell them to go see an attorney. I wouldn’t want them to be in a position where they were incapacitated and had to wait for the court system to determine who could act on their behalf, nor would I want to watch my mother go through the painful, expensive, and time consuming probate process should my grandmother pass. As a parent, with minor children, it is also imperative to plan out guardianship; if something were to happen to you while your children were minors, you have already designated who, in your opinion, is the best fit to take care of your children.
While there are websites that offer estate planning documents for a small fee, these documents are not sculpted to individual needs. Rather, these websites use cookie-cutter forms and provide a false sense of security.
Everyone makes mistakes – unfortunately, this includes attorneys. However, relying on a fillable-form website, without being able to express your needs, needs that you may not even realize you have, greatly increases the chances for mistakes. The same is true for trying to write a will yourself; if the documents do not follow the strict Florida Statutes and contain specific information and language, the documents may be considered invalid, placing you in the position of never having the document in the first place.
Most attorneys offer a free consultation, where they are happy to answer questions and help direct you down the right estate plan. Having someone there who is well versed in this subject makes the process a lot less stressful. When you have a moment, sit back and think about what you want your life to look like from this point forward, and then, go make a plan.